Mail: Make sure the `PHPMailer` class is only required once if a plugin...

Mail: Make sure the `PHPMailer` class is only required once if a plugin requires `wp-includes/class-phpmailer.php` directly.

Follow-up to [48033].

Props david.binda.
Fixes #50716. See #41750.
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